Thursday, May 31, 2007

leading up to...

My husband and I were suposed to go on vacation up north, but our finances wouldn't allow for the gas and we already had memorial weekend off so we decided to just stay around home. On Saturday my parents said they would watch the baby all night and I was going to go out with some friends and he decided to go out mudding and drinking with his friends and he would return home on Sunday. My plans fell through, so I just kept the baby. I tried to get ahold of him on Sunday to see when he would be home and he didn't answer my calls, so after trying for about an hour (he always answers his phone for me) I was worried and I called his friend who said he already left and that his phone was messing up and so when he got home we dried it out(he got water in it from mudding) and it worked fine. We got in an argument about him not letting me know about the phone and worrying me.
On Monday we were talking and his friend called and said he was going to a derbyand so of course my husband wanted to go and I got upset because he was already leaving the next day to pick up a car they were buying and I felt like he should spend one day out of our vacation together with our baby and then he dropped the bomb on me that he was not sure if he wanted to go to school anymore. So that led to an argument and he left at one in the afternoon and didn't return home until after ten o'clock at night.
On Tuesday he still went with his friend to go pick up that car and we got in an argument because it was our last day off together and he had barely seen me or the baby, but he left anyway. I had a dress filtting at 7 o'clock for a wedding I am in and I needed him home by six and he couldn't make it, so i had to ruin my moms plans for dinner and she watched her while I went. So that turned into a fight of course, but we talked about it and I thought it was over, we were even intimate later that night. And off he went to work the next day.

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